Teacher Answers · Counselling

How do I refer a student for professional help?

A practical, in-depth answer for educators and prospective learners from London College of Teachers.

Short answer

You refer a student for professional help by following your setting’s established procedures: sharing your concern with the designated safeguarding or pastoral lead, documenting what you have observed appropriately, and ensuring the student is signposted to qualified professionals. Knowing the route in advance lets you act quickly and correctly. Referral is not passing the problem on; it is making sure the student reaches the right help while you keep supporting them. Referral connects the student to the right help while you keep supporting them.

Know your setting’s procedure

Every school should have a referral and safeguarding procedure. Knowing it in advance means you can act promptly when needed.

Familiarity prevents hesitation in the moment.

Raise it with the right person

Concerns usually go first to a designated safeguarding or pastoral lead, who coordinates next steps.

You do not carry the decision alone.

Document appropriately

Recording what you observed, factually and in line with policy, supports the right response and protects everyone.

Stick to facts rather than assumptions.

Signpost and support

Students may be signposted to counsellors, health services or other professionals, while you continue to offer everyday support.

Referral complements, not replaces, your care.

Handling referral sensitively

How you refer matters to the student. Where appropriate, explain gently that you would like to involve someone who can help more, so they do not feel dismissed or that they have done something wrong.

Follow your setting’s procedure for who to inform and how to record the concern, keep information to those who need it, and continue offering your everyday support so the student does not feel abandoned during the process.

Following through after a referral

Referral is not the end of your involvement; continuing your everyday support reassures the student they have not been passed off or forgotten.

Staying in appropriate contact with the pastoral or safeguarding lead, within confidentiality limits, helps ensure the student does not fall through gaps.

This follow-through, combined with a sensitive initial referral, is what makes the process genuinely supportive.

Referring with care and follow-through

Explaining gently that you want to involve someone who can help more prevents the student feeling dismissed.

Following your setting’s procedure, keeping information to those who need it and documenting factually ensures the referral is handled well.

Continuing your everyday support afterwards reassures the student they have not been forgotten.

What to check

  • Knowing the referral procedure
  • The designated lead to contact
  • Factual documentation
  • Appropriate confidentiality
  • Continued everyday support
  • Referring sensitively to the student
  • Keeping information appropriately limited

Important distinction

Referral procedures and legal duties vary by setting and country. Always follow your organisation’s specific safeguarding and referral policies.

Quick FAQ

Related quick questions

Who do I tell first?
Usually the designated safeguarding or pastoral lead, who coordinates next steps.
Should I document concerns?
Yes — factually and in line with your setting’s policy.
Do I stop supporting after referral?
No — you continue everyday support alongside the referral.
Is referral passing the problem on?
No — it connects the student to the right help while you keep supporting them.
How do I refer sensitively?
Explain gently that you want to involve someone who can help more, so they do not feel dismissed.
Who should know?
Only those who need to, in line with your setting’s procedure.
Does my involvement end at referral?
No — continue everyday support so the student does not feel passed off.
How do I prevent gaps?
Stay in appropriate contact with the pastoral lead, within confidentiality limits.
How do I refer sensitively?
Explain gently that you want to involve someone who can help more.
Does my support end at referral?
No — continue everyday support afterwards.

Related LCT pathway

The Counselling for Educators pathway at London College of Teachers is the most directly related programme.

Explore Counselling for Educators
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Written byLondon College of Teachers Academic Team
Last reviewed14 October 2026
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